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Tuesday, January 29, 2013
FEAR-WORST ENEMY OF SUCESS
FEAR-WORST ENEMY
Fear is of your own making and it is in your mind only. We are prisoners of a n0n-existing threat of our own creation. Don’t be afraid of it: face it and make it disappear.
True, it is in human nature to fear and be cautious But most of the time, fear kills your zeal to take up an initiative for success. Fear leads to inaction which in turn breads doubt and more fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit at home, just to brood about it. Go out and get busy.
Do the things you fear most and the death of fear is certain. So what you fear most must be your first target of attack.
Success does not come to those who make fear a constant part of their persona.
Success goes to them who are fearless and undaunted in the face of failures and challenges.
Any success demands a great desire to eclipse the fear of failure. Your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. It is not that one will succeed always. That should not stand as a problem. One who can bounce back and then goes to war fully equipped will surely have success in his bag.
Fear is of your own making and it is in your mind only. We are prisoners of a n0n-existing threat of our own creation. Don’t be afraid of it: face it and make it disappear.
True, it is in human nature to fear and be cautious But most of the time, fear kills your zeal to take up an initiative for success. Fear leads to inaction which in turn breads doubt and more fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit at home, just to brood about it. Go out and get busy.
Do the things you fear most and the death of fear is certain. So what you fear most must be your first target of attack.
Success does not come to those who make fear a constant part of their persona.
Success goes to them who are fearless and undaunted in the face of failures and challenges.
Any success demands a great desire to eclipse the fear of failure. Your desire for success should be greater than your fear of failure. It is not that one will succeed always. That should not stand as a problem. One who can bounce back and then goes to war fully equipped will surely have success in his bag.
Thursday, September 6, 2012
PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS
ORGANIZE YOUR THOUGHTS, EMOTIONS AND ENERGIES:
Every thing we have created on this planet was essentially first created in our minds. All that you see which is human work on this planet first found expression in the mind, then it got manifested in the outside world.
If you organize your mind to a certain level, it in turn, organizes the whole system. Your body, your emotions, your energies, everything get organized in that direction.
It is very important that your physical, emotional, mental and energy actions are controlled and properly directed. If it is not so, we become destructive, self-destructive.
If life has to happen the way you think it should happen, first of all how you think and with how much focus you think, how much stability is there in your thought and how much reverberance is there in the thought process— all these will determine if your thought will become a reality or not.
Modern science is proving that the whole of existence is just a reverberation of energy. It is a vibration. Similarly, your thought is also vibration. If you generate a powerful thought and let it out, it will always manifest itself.
To create what you really care for, first, what you want must be manifested in your mind. Once you can maintain a steady stream of thought without changing direction, definitely this is going to happen in your life. It will definitely manifest as a reality in your life.
You must be clear as to what is it that you really want. If you do not know what you want, the question of creating it does not arise.
What every human wants is to live joyfully. He wants to live peacefully, in terms of its relationship he wants to be loving and affectionate. All that any human being is seeking for is pleasantness around him.
Once your mind gets organized, the way you think is the way you feel: your emotions will get organized. Once your thoughts and emotions are organized, your energies will go the same way. Then your very body will get organized. Once all these four are organized in one direction, your ability to create and manifest what you want is phenomenal. PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS
Every thing we have created on this planet was essentially first created in our minds. All that you see which is human work on this planet first found expression in the mind, then it got manifested in the outside world.
If you organize your mind to a certain level, it in turn, organizes the whole system. Your body, your emotions, your energies, everything get organized in that direction.
It is very important that your physical, emotional, mental and energy actions are controlled and properly directed. If it is not so, we become destructive, self-destructive.
If life has to happen the way you think it should happen, first of all how you think and with how much focus you think, how much stability is there in your thought and how much reverberance is there in the thought process— all these will determine if your thought will become a reality or not.
Modern science is proving that the whole of existence is just a reverberation of energy. It is a vibration. Similarly, your thought is also vibration. If you generate a powerful thought and let it out, it will always manifest itself.
To create what you really care for, first, what you want must be manifested in your mind. Once you can maintain a steady stream of thought without changing direction, definitely this is going to happen in your life. It will definitely manifest as a reality in your life.
You must be clear as to what is it that you really want. If you do not know what you want, the question of creating it does not arise.
What every human wants is to live joyfully. He wants to live peacefully, in terms of its relationship he wants to be loving and affectionate. All that any human being is seeking for is pleasantness around him.
Once your mind gets organized, the way you think is the way you feel: your emotions will get organized. Once your thoughts and emotions are organized, your energies will go the same way. Then your very body will get organized. Once all these four are organized in one direction, your ability to create and manifest what you want is phenomenal. PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS
Sunday, September 2, 2012
PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS
BEWARE OF NEGATIVE EMOTIONS:
Each of us has been given the gift of life fuelled by the life-force or "Prana". Like food, air or blood, our invisible energy system consisting of emotions flows through our bodies, is processed and transformed before leaving us. The manner in which it does this tells us how energetic we are. You sometimes feel low, drained; energy-less. You might feel so after a stressful period – because of trying circumstances, a spell of hectic work or sudden trauma. Why does this precious source of life-force (Prana or energy) dwindle, sometimes to desperately low levels?
Take a look at major energy-guzzlers –
I. WORRY: We worry about things that we are convinced are doomed to happen – that those who are ill will not recover– others who aren’t, will fall ill – bad times will remain bad – good ones will take a turn for the worse – children who are admitted in school or college might not do justice to the opportunity given to them, etc. In fact, as a worrier can tell you with conviction, nothing in life is certain, so there is much to worry about. Thus there is always ample fuel for worry. And this is a greedy unsatisfied fire, always ready to devour more. It is a vicious story of burnout.
What does this mean in energy terms? Consider this: Energy follows thought; so as you continue to feel that fire – as you think negative thoughts about all the things that may not turnout as well as you wish, you are actually giving energy to those very occurrences that you wish to avoid. As you continue to obsessively think about them and imagine the consequences, energy continues to flow to them. You often feel them manifesting, little realizing your role in their creation. Soon you feel drained, unhappy and low in energy.
II. RESENTMENT: If worry drains you with fear of the future, then hurt, resentment and regret keep you chained to the "past". As you nourish memories of people who have hurt you or let you down, of the circumstances that have betrayed your expectations, or of the unfulfilled dreams, you are only draining energy to something that is in fact dead and gone. By dwelling in the past that is dead, you un-necessarily feel life to be unfair and joyless; a burden rather than a gift.
III. GUILT: We all make mistakes, feel regret or remorse over situations in our lives and commit acts of omission or commission. But, we cannot let go. We believe it would be irresponsible to forgive. So we continue to internally condemn and scold, instead of learning from the fall and getting up to move on. It is much like climbing a mountain with a heavy trunk tied on our back. How you can really look around and enjoy the view?
Physically, where we hide our feelings? According to emotional technique practitioners in Reiki, we repress them within – in various parts of our body. Anger hides in our liver, ruining our digestion and creating acidity. Hurt and resentment cause constipation. Financial insecurity might cause us discomfort in our back. Although these might seem like generalizations, they are emotional components of our Physical aches and pains.
Thus, if we are feeling worried, distressed, upset, angry, irritated, resentful or guilty, we can safely assume that energy is leaving our body, because these are emotions which make us weak and we could be pushed into being losers and unable to cope with requirements of success.
Each of us has been given the gift of life fuelled by the life-force or "Prana". Like food, air or blood, our invisible energy system consisting of emotions flows through our bodies, is processed and transformed before leaving us. The manner in which it does this tells us how energetic we are. You sometimes feel low, drained; energy-less. You might feel so after a stressful period – because of trying circumstances, a spell of hectic work or sudden trauma. Why does this precious source of life-force (Prana or energy) dwindle, sometimes to desperately low levels?
Take a look at major energy-guzzlers –
I. WORRY: We worry about things that we are convinced are doomed to happen – that those who are ill will not recover– others who aren’t, will fall ill – bad times will remain bad – good ones will take a turn for the worse – children who are admitted in school or college might not do justice to the opportunity given to them, etc. In fact, as a worrier can tell you with conviction, nothing in life is certain, so there is much to worry about. Thus there is always ample fuel for worry. And this is a greedy unsatisfied fire, always ready to devour more. It is a vicious story of burnout.
What does this mean in energy terms? Consider this: Energy follows thought; so as you continue to feel that fire – as you think negative thoughts about all the things that may not turnout as well as you wish, you are actually giving energy to those very occurrences that you wish to avoid. As you continue to obsessively think about them and imagine the consequences, energy continues to flow to them. You often feel them manifesting, little realizing your role in their creation. Soon you feel drained, unhappy and low in energy.
II. RESENTMENT: If worry drains you with fear of the future, then hurt, resentment and regret keep you chained to the "past". As you nourish memories of people who have hurt you or let you down, of the circumstances that have betrayed your expectations, or of the unfulfilled dreams, you are only draining energy to something that is in fact dead and gone. By dwelling in the past that is dead, you un-necessarily feel life to be unfair and joyless; a burden rather than a gift.
III. GUILT: We all make mistakes, feel regret or remorse over situations in our lives and commit acts of omission or commission. But, we cannot let go. We believe it would be irresponsible to forgive. So we continue to internally condemn and scold, instead of learning from the fall and getting up to move on. It is much like climbing a mountain with a heavy trunk tied on our back. How you can really look around and enjoy the view?
Physically, where we hide our feelings? According to emotional technique practitioners in Reiki, we repress them within – in various parts of our body. Anger hides in our liver, ruining our digestion and creating acidity. Hurt and resentment cause constipation. Financial insecurity might cause us discomfort in our back. Although these might seem like generalizations, they are emotional components of our Physical aches and pains.
Thus, if we are feeling worried, distressed, upset, angry, irritated, resentful or guilty, we can safely assume that energy is leaving our body, because these are emotions which make us weak and we could be pushed into being losers and unable to cope with requirements of success.
Monday, August 27, 2012
PSYCHOLOGY OF SUCCESS
How to develop good relationships and be popular:
1. Appreciate, but don’t flatter others: Be liberal in your hearty appreciation with good intentions and love for others. Avoid flattery, as it can hurt a person’s self-esteem.2. Become a patient listener: If you don’t interrupt and patiently listen to other’s viewpoint, it will promote friendly feelings.
3. Don’t shout: Instead of shouting and crying, gently put across your viewpoint to others.
4. Be civilized and gentle: Rude behaviour creates tense atmosphere, while gentle and sweet manner of dealing leads to friendship.
5. Don’t be vindictive: To forgive and forget is the best policy, while developing resentment and revengefulness leads to confusion and wastage of energy.
6. Avoid egotism: Egotism is a sign of weakness and insecurity. Nobody likes a person having an unduly high opinion of himself.
7. Don’t be sarcastic: If somebody has done a good thing, do encourage him instead of being sarcastic in your attitude.
8. Don’t complain: During whole of your mutual talk with others, don’t complain or talk of some drawback in him.
9. Don’t be haughty: If you have a very high opinion of yourself and are unduly prideful, people will shirk in being friendly with you.
10. Be calm and cool: Be full of life with calm and cool mind irrespective of your grief caused by personal problems.
11. Live and let live: It is the best policy to follow because everybody has got own peculiar liking for a thing or object or ideas to follow and you should not impose any thing upon others.
12. Be helpful: Your helpfulness and good deeds to others in the long run are likely to bring good returns in the shape of goodwill or otherwise in various forms.
13. Meet freely to everybody: Be open to every body. If you don’t mix up with people who will care about you.
14. Be apologetic: Whenever the situation demands be apologetic about your mistake. It shall be helpful to win over others.
15. Be honest: Being honest in what you say or do will be helpful in maintaining your credibility.
16. Resolve differences: In case of controversy or dispute with anyone, resolve differences instead of nurturing grievances in your mind for an indefinite period.
17. Practical behaviour: In spite of frank admission by the other person about his weakness or drawback, don’t brand him so in your words and dealing with him. You should not repeat any thing negative uttered by him or her.
18. Lend with pleasure: Among friends there might be some occasions when to make ‘minor adjustments’ you may be asked to lend something. Lend a small amount of money with great pleasure.
19. Attend moments of grief and happiness: Give the people what they want. They might need your sympathy and encouragement during grief and sharing of happy moments at their especially happy occasions. Give them that and they will like you most.
Monday, August 20, 2012
SUCCESSFUL MAN
When we a meet successful individual, we often say that he is lucky. However, we don’t observe how much persistent effort they made to achieve success. We also don’t observe any thing about his attitude, potentialities, capability, etc. to achieve success. In fact we can also bring change and develop some winning habits to achieve success. The following are some of the good points to pursue your goal.
I. Correct estimate of risk involved: The successful people are visionaries who collect complete knowledge and relevant important facts about the work they intend to do. When they are convinced about the success and do believe that the risks involved can be overcome, they take the decision to pursue their object without any tension.
II. Convert difficulties into opportunities: The successful people take maximum advantage of the opportunities in hand. They are not afraid of the difficulties involved in pursuing their object. Rather by surmounting difficulties they convert them into opportunities and make easy way to progress.
III. Don’t be obstinate: Unsuccessful individuals are often obstinate and incorrigible. Therefore, they don’t change themselves in spite of the setbacks. However, the successful individuals while correctly assessing their position adapt themselves as per the situation. If necessary, they change their priorities or modify their objectives without any ego. They are ever ready to learn from new experiences.
IV. Be optimistic and develop faith: The successful persons are optimistic, develop faith in their capabilities and are self-made. Instead of being pessimistic they are courageous to face the circumstances. They complete their work with fullest capability and capacity they possess.
V. Don’t quit: The successful persons fully know that a winner never quits, while a quitter never wins. Therefore, after receiving a setback, instead of cursing their fate they again try with full force to achieve their object.
The universe is transformation; our life is what our thoughts make it. – (Marcus Aurelius).
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